Love is...

I remember a film where someone said love is what is left once all the excitement of romance is worn off!

I think this is very very true. Anyone can be loved up after two months of dating. Dating long term is trickier!

I got to work today and got a surprise note from Daddy saying how much he is going to miss me today and I know he genuinely misses my company! Even after 6 years we hate being apart even for a few hours! I love the little things he does for me. He has given me 3 amazing surprise gifts this week each make me feel so spoilt and important.  

Few of my friends have stable long term relationships, most of those that do have very stale ones... I always get asked what makes us work and keeps us so loved up despite having been together for ages and ages.

If truth be told it is hard to put my finger on it. I think not having kids is a big help. My body is still in exactly the same state it was when I was 16, if anything I would say things are better, I am slimmer and in better shape. I am very very lucky. This has helped with my confidence. Daddy also keeps his body in excellent shape too!

Not having had children has helped too. I adore kids but I don't want them and never will. They are very inconvenient in my view and they don't suit my lifestyle. I would hate to have to look after kids! They are so much trouble. I see my sister in law, she has stretch marks like you wouldn't believe, baby weight she can't lose, she is always busy all the time and they have little or no time for intimacy. Personally I don't know how people raise kids. They must either be superhumans or take some sort of drugs to keep them sane and awake! I still need to mother things but I mother my cats and animals.

Financial stability and living within our means has helped too. We always have enough money and we live a nice, but sensible existence.

Plus, we committed so early, we moved in after two weeks, we are totally tied to each other, we are more or less the same person. Our fates are linked and we spend sooooo much time together. We do everything together! I think the fact we are always together is what makes us so successful!

But the main thing is why we got together. I loved him from the start because he was amazing in bed, kind to me, he was very handsome, a great person to be around and I liked his company!

My friends seem to be obsessed with money, looks, careers and prospects when they choose a partner and when they have they don't really commit... and think that is why my relationship is such a happy one... and I thank my lucky stars I have the best owner in the whole wide world!!! xx

time off!

I love having time off. One of the great things about having a job besides the pay of course is the time off. When you have a job you make more of time you have off. From experience when I wasn't working or I had a lot of time on my hands I find myself wasting a lot of it.

But I have had a fair bit of time off lately and have made the most of it as a result!

Firstly, I have been doing really well on my diet I have lost another 2 pounds this week. I am hoping to get to a BMI of 18 or there abouts and keep it there. I have found a great way to reduce my calorie intake healthily and without starving myself. I am a very good dieter! My waist is tiny and my arms are skinny but I would like my arms to be slightly skinnier.

Secondly, I have been working on my hair. My hair often looks overdone which I don't like. I want it to look wavy and big but natural. I tried something new every day this week and came up with a new approach which gets big hair with minimum damage and work required... score! Daddy loves big hair!

Thirdly, I have been doing lots of nice things, we have had playtime every day during my time off, twice on several days so we have lots of closeness time... then yesterday we went to a show... I love country shows. Daddy bought me a gorgeous wood carving of a cat and some of my fav sweets.

We then went into a tent full of food! One man was selling Chilli Jam... he is called the Chilli Jam Man. It tasted amazing and I really really enjoyed it. I bought some. Daddy being daddy had some extra hot chilli jam called the Podfather. I already had a headache from eating too much chiilli and I am a big time chilli enthusiast! I love to eat chillis as a snack! Anyway we got some of those...

But then we went into a tent full of animals and I saw the most gorgeous two guinea pigs in the whole world and they were for sale. Daddy knows how much I missed my old guinea pig Mr Carrots and so he agreed to buy them for me... I was uber happy about it. They are so delightful and cute. I have called them Winston and Nina. They are long haired silky guinea pigs!!!!

Back to work tomorrow but the weekend is on Saturday! xx

Rain. oreo lunches and diets

I am a very happy bunny or should that be kitty? It has been raining almost nonstop for several days here in England but M is very happy, I satisfied all his needs last night and today I had oreos for lunch. Nom nom nom...

The diet is going ace. I am dreaming of getting below 121 lbs... but it is hard work! Currently my weight has flatlined so I need extra hard work to help me along... why is it the less you weigh the harder the work gets... people seem to think people stay thin because they are just lucky... in reality I try really hard to lose weight and watch what I eat. M is proud of my efforts though and that is the main thing :-).

Right back to it. I can have one more Oreo as my afternoon snack... yummy!!!! xx

Purr

I am a very happy kitty as Master bought me some amazing perfume called Purr... it comes in its very own cat bottle with diamante eyes and a collar tag and gorgeous ears


Miaow!

It certainly cheered me up, I don't want to use it all though at once... so will have to be extra careful xx